Your Brain Is Secretly Wired To Resist What You Want Most

  1. When we go so long not having what we really want, we create subconscious associations between having it and “being bad,” because we have judged others for having it.
  2. When we get it, we fear losing it so badly that we push it away from ourselves, so as to not have to withstand the pain.
  3. We are so deeply enmeshed in the mental state of “wanting,” we cannot shift to a state of “having.”
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